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Post by alfie on Jun 8, 2009 13:15:09 GMT -5
Ok, if she knows then she needs to leave to dude! He obviously does not love her.... I would totally no questions asked leave my husband if he did anything with another woman. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER! I disagree that her husband doesn't love her. The problem may be her...not him. Like Dr. Laura Slessinger says when men cheat it usually is the woman's fault. Anyway we are only hearing one side of the story. |
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Post by teresahrc on Jun 8, 2009 13:18:56 GMT -5
Dr. Laura Sleesinger doesn't know what she's talking about then! Wow. That's terrible.
I know for a fact that my friend is a really, really good wife. The best.
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Post by emily445455 on Jun 8, 2009 13:19:08 GMT -5
There is never an excuse for someone to cheat on their spouse. Just like there is no excuse for someone to hit their spouse or rape them (or anyone else for that matter).
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Post by alfie on Jun 8, 2009 13:22:43 GMT -5
Dr. Laura Sleesinger doesn't know what she's talking about then! Wow. That's terrible. I know for a fact that my friend is a really, really good wife. The best. So what kind of a guy was her husband before they were married? Was he a womanizer then? |
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Post by teresahrc on Jun 8, 2009 13:24:23 GMT -5
Would she marry someone that was a womanizer? People change. Some for the better, some for worse.
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Post by alfie on Jun 8, 2009 13:29:05 GMT -5
Would she marry someone that was a womanizer? People change. Some for the better, some for worse. Here we go again! Why do women think they can change a man? |
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Post by Cepha on Jun 8, 2009 13:30:47 GMT -5
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Post by emily445455 on Jun 8, 2009 13:32:44 GMT -5
alfie- regardless, no man or woman has the right to treat their spouse poorly.
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Post by teresahrc on Jun 8, 2009 13:33:45 GMT -5
Would she marry someone that was a womanizer? People change. Some for the better, some for worse. Here we go again! Why do women think they can change a man? What is that supposed to mean? He WAS NOT a womanizer when she married him. He changed afterwards by his own free choice. |
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Post by Cepha on Jun 8, 2009 13:33:57 GMT -5
So which do you think God would choose...divorce or forgiveness? Jesus was crucified and forgave his killers. That would depend on the repentance of the sinner up to 3X. And, forgiveness doesn't automatically equal staying with the abuser. One could forgive and still leave the marriage. The vow was broken, so was the covenant between the couple. Thus, the woman is free to divorce. Jesus said it. Matthew 19:8-9Jesus replied, "Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard.
But it was not this way from the beginning.
I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery." |
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Post by Cepha on Jun 8, 2009 13:35:58 GMT -5
Ok, if she knows then she needs to leave to dude! He obviously does not love her.... I would totally no questions asked leave my husband if he did anything with another woman. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER! I disagree that her husband doesn't love her. The problem may be her...not him. Like Dr. Laura Slessinger says when men cheat it usually is the woman's fault. Anyway we are only hearing one side of the story. LOL! Dr. Laura Slessinger? Don't you know that she's a nut? LOL! |
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Post by Cepha on Jun 8, 2009 13:36:59 GMT -5
Would she marry someone that was a womanizer? People change. Some for the better, some for worse. Here we go again! Why do women think they can change a man? People don't change. They either evolve or devolve. ;D |
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Post by teresahrc on Jun 8, 2009 13:37:51 GMT -5
So, what do you think my friend did wrong then Alfie, cause you obviously think it's her fault?
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Post by Cepha on Jun 8, 2009 13:40:19 GMT -5
So, what do you think my friend did wrong then Alfie, cause you obviously think it's her fault? I think she should've married me! LOL! |
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Post by teresahrc on Jun 8, 2009 13:43:46 GMT -5
Yeah, which is better, to go from a godly man to a womanizer, or to go from a womanizer to a godly man?
I think everyone should know the answer to that.
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Post by cradlecathlic27 on Jun 8, 2009 13:57:42 GMT -5
Dr. Laura Sleesinger doesn't know what she's talking about then! Wow. That's terrible. I know for a fact that my friend is a really, really good wife. The best. I agree dr. laura says alot of stupid things....though some of what she says i agree with..but not on this topic for sure. There is NO reason to leave your spouse and cheat. Accourding to the Bible the only good reason to leave your spouse is if they are cheating or abuse. |
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Post by alfie on Jun 8, 2009 14:01:43 GMT -5
Yeah, which is better, to go from a godly man to a womanizer, or to go from a womanizer to a godly man? I think everyone should know the answer to that. Well, If you go from a womanizer to a godly man then you are a "born again Christian" |
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Post by Cepha on Jun 8, 2009 14:05:37 GMT -5
Yeah, which is better, to go from a godly man to a womanizer, or to go from a womanizer to a godly man? I think everyone should know the answer to that. Well, If you go from a womanizer to a godly man then you are a "born again Christian" What if the guy is a Muslim? LOL! |
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Post by alfie on Jun 8, 2009 14:19:25 GMT -5
Well, If you go from a womanizer to a godly man then you are a "born again Christian" What if the guy is a Muslim? LOL! Forget the Muslims. Someday the Jews are going to kill all of the ones living in the Middle-East. |
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Post by Cepha on Jun 8, 2009 14:27:04 GMT -5
Forget the Muslims. Someday the Jews are going to kill all of the ones living in the Middle-East. LOL! Yeah, but I've known of men who were Christians and were heathens, but when they became Muslims, they got off of drugs, became loyal husbands and productive citizens of society. If they go from being a womanizer to becomming a good husband, does that automatically make them a Born Again Christian? LOL! ;D ;D ;D ;D |
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