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Post by emily445455 on Jun 8, 2009 14:52:55 GMT -5
Well, If you go from a womanizer to a godly man then you are a "born again Christian" Not necessarily...maybe they just wanted to be treated better. |
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Post by teresahrc on Jun 8, 2009 16:59:59 GMT -5
what is the deal with blaming the victim though?
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Post by emily445455 on Jun 8, 2009 17:54:06 GMT -5
Heather, I'm definitly not into blaming the victims. No one asks for those kinds of things to happen to them.
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Post by teresahrc on Jun 8, 2009 18:21:52 GMT -5
No, not you Emily, Alfie.
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Post by emily445455 on Jun 8, 2009 18:24:06 GMT -5
Yeah I know...I was just saying.  I'm bored, and some of alfie's statements upset me. |
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Post by teresahrc on Jun 8, 2009 18:31:25 GMT -5
Hehe. Yeah, half of the time I'm debating on here it's because it's fun.
I hope no one takes it personally. To me it's like arguing w/brothers and sisters.
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Post by teresahrc on Jun 9, 2009 9:45:04 GMT -5
So, what do you think my friend did wrong then Alfie, cause you obviously think it's her fault? I think she should've married me! LOL! Probably so. But what if you did the same thing to her? Anyway, please pray for her because she is really depressed and wondering how she is going to live the rest of her life knowing that her husband doesn't love her. I don't know what to say to her. 4"Fear not, for you will not be put to shame; And do not feel humiliated, for you will not be disgraced; But you will forget the shame of your youth, And the reproach of your widowhood you will remember no more. 5"For your husband is your Maker, Whose name is the LORD of hosts; And your Redeemer is the Holy One of Israel, Who is called the God of all the earth. 6"For the LORD has called you, Like a wife forsaken and grieved in spirit, Even like a wife of one's youth when she is rejected," Says your God. 7"For a brief moment I forsook you, But with great compassion I will gather you. 8"In an outburst of anger I hid My face from you for a moment, But with everlasting lovingkindness I will have compassion on you," Says the LORD your Redeemer. Isaiah 54 |
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Post by teresahrc on Jun 9, 2009 13:40:52 GMT -5
So, do you all think she should separate from him, or live with him the rest of her life knowing that he doesn't love her?
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Post by emily445455 on Jun 9, 2009 14:28:27 GMT -5
My vote is to seperate, and see if it leads to divorce or to him changing his ways.
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Post by Cepha on Jun 9, 2009 14:28:55 GMT -5
I think she should've married me! LOL! Probably so. But what if you did the same thing to her? I don't cheat! I never had to. I've always reserved myself a woman that I was undeniably attracted to. ;D |
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Post by alfie on Jun 9, 2009 16:30:29 GMT -5
Probably so. But what if you did the same thing to her? I don't cheat! I never had to. I've always reserved myself a woman that I was undeniably attracted to. ;D But it doesn't sound like you have had any committed relationships for very long. Divide the 250 women you have been with by how many days you have been alive to get an average. By the way what happened to your Orthodox chick? |
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Post by Cepha on Jun 9, 2009 16:36:03 GMT -5
I don't cheat! I never had to. I've always reserved myself a woman that I was undeniably attracted to. ;D But it doesn't sound like you have had any committed relationships for very long. Divide the 250 women you have been with by how many days you have been alive to get an average. By the way what happened to your Orthodox chick? 3 year/5 year/1 year/1 year relationships. Divide the rest of the women over the other years since. ;D As for my Orthy girl, that was history last year.  |
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Post by cradlecathlic27 on Jun 9, 2009 21:47:00 GMT -5
You were married once cepha...what was reason for divorce?
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Post by teresahrc on Jun 10, 2009 18:39:11 GMT -5
As far as the East is from the West is what I came up with when I did a calculation.
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Post by emily445455 on Jun 10, 2009 21:43:10 GMT -5
Amen, Heather.
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Post by Cepha on Jun 12, 2009 8:58:22 GMT -5
You were married once cepha...what was reason for divorce? It was a marriage of "convenience" (paperwork) for my employment benefits. It was in Las Vegas. Plus, it was a "civil" ceremony (not by The Church). Took about 5 minutes. In/Out, hit the hotel and slept (yes, literally slept...no honeymoon activities or consummation) and by about 10AM the next morning, we were on a bus back to Los Angeles. ;D |
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Post by Cepha on Jun 12, 2009 9:37:54 GMT -5
As far as the East is from the West is what I came up with when I did a calculation. |
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Post by teresahrc on Jun 13, 2009 10:13:29 GMT -5
I don't get the beach boys Cepha! Why you post that for?
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Post by Cepha on Jun 13, 2009 10:14:56 GMT -5
I don't get the beach boys Cepha! Why you post that for? LOL! Because of the song... "Get around round round, I get around!" You guys seem to be so interested in my past conquests! LOL! |
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Post by emily445455 on Jun 13, 2009 10:16:38 GMT -5
Seems to be just one person.
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I'm bored, and some of alfie's statements upset me.
